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Saturday, May 17, 2014

Tak Kahwin lagi..Rilek Girl..Be Awesome Instead..

Assalamualaikum...


haha... so why worry all dear?? Feeling Che Ta sangat kan....haha Yes I'm already 24 years old this year... time muda2 dulu plan konon 23 or 24 nak bernikah dah hahaha...tapi lanie okey Allah lebih tahu.. If orang dolu2... umur 24 tahun dah beranak pinak dah... kira memang dah lambat sangat lah kalau masih anak dara... terusssss pannnng!! "ANDARTU"... pwehhhh so cruel...so cruel..... Dunia kejam...Dunia kejam...rilekkkksss dunia tak kejam..manusia yang kejam...sebab mulut manusia yang cakap.. Ada ka bumi bersuara cakap kita ANDARTU.. 

So disebabkan mulut2 puaka atau mulut2 longkang segolongan manusia ni.. Banyak gadis yang sebaya2 aku ni jadi tak senang duduk.. dah la kena fikir pasal kerja pasal belajar pasal dunia pasal politik eh tiba eh.. ni tambah pula pasal kahwin..ohhh damn.. So kecian la dekat gadis yang terpaksa kahwin..dipaksa kahwin..terdesak kahwin ni.. Just to avoid from being stamped as so called "ANDARTU".. Kalau dipaksa kahwin atau terpaksa kahwin kesudahan dia awesome cam dalam drama2 atau novel2 cinta tu tak apa jugak.. Ni jadi pelik2.. Dapat laki kaki pukul... kaki perempuan.. kaki segala bapak kaki.. Sebab tak mahu jadi ANDARTU kena sacrifice whole life suffering...serius sangat kasihan...

Perempuan ni time dia anak dara orang tanya bila nak kahwin..kalau kahwin awal orang kata "dah gatai sangat.." or "dah ada apa2 la tu".. Kalau tak kahwin lagi terus cop "memilih.." "materialistik..." paling sadis "tak laku.." Dah jadi isteri orang.. tanya pulak bila nak ada anak.. setengah tu Allah bagi ujian tak ada anak.. Si Sibuk Mulut Puaka ni sibuk tanya.. tanya time raya time kenduri..time kat shopping compleks...tanya sekali boleh la accept.. kalau dah frequently.. Dah tahu soalan tu so sensitive.. dari sibuk2 tanya yang kau tahu jawapannya.. why not doa kan untuk depa ja...hadoiii people always make it so complicated.... then bila berlaku penceraian.. perempuan lagi..."Tak Pandai Jaga Laki".. "Tak Pandai Jaga Badan".. yang sedihnya perempuan sendiri yang kata kat kaum perempuan sendiri..hasihh nasib la orang tak tanya.."Kau bila nak mati?"

Tambah sekarang zaman Facebook..Instagram...selfie merata... bukak2 jek.. berderet gambar kawan2 kita sana sini kahwin.. Kad2 kahwin pun dapat atas nama kita...Dolu2 dapat nama parent kita.. Serious aku tengok pun terus rasa wahhh nak kahwin jugak la.. punca?? Sebab baju cantik... photoshoot feeling model.. orang2 ucap tahniah..Orang yang tak berapa rapat pun akan kata tahniah... boleh dapat ribu2 like kat facebook..hehe then i realized marriage bukan setakat 1 hari yang kita jadi Raja sehari tu.. nak pakai baju cantik.. boleh jek pergi sewa mana2 baju pengantin then tangkap gambaq buat koleksi sendiri... tapi jangan kang orang ingat physco ahhaha...

Bila orang yang Allah dah takdirkan memang tak ada jodoh ni... Actually tak ada  apa pun... sebab Allah cipta kita hidup untuk jadi khalifah bukan hidup untuk kahwin semata2 dan bila kahwin tu dah kira hidup dah settle down kononnya...tapi fungsi masyarakat sekeliling yang mulut2 puaka2 ni yang banyak merosakkan semua.. Kalau orang tu tak kahwin sampai tua.. bila dia moody marah2..kena kata "Dok perangai camtu..tu yang tak kahwin2".. "Tak kahwin tu yang suka marah2".. "Orang tak kahwin..memang camtu".. hey come on la.. kita ni human kot.. what u all expect.. kita tak boleh marah2 or moody...then what u expect us to do?? Kalau orang dah kahwin moody2 or marah2.. lain pulak orang kata...haishh la mulut puaka.. please la change this type of mentality..!!

So for those yang maybe tengah runsing Mr.Jodoh tak kunjung tiba tu.. well dont worry girl!! Marriage is not your only aim.. yeahh perkahwinan itu satu yang di tuntut dalam Islam.. leave it to Allah.. Allah akan bagi Mr.Jodoh pada waktu yang tepat.. maybe kita rasa cam kita ni dah layak sangat nak kahwin tapi Allah tu Maha Mengetahui.. Dia tahu kita tak bersedia lagi that's why Dia tak bagi lagi.. well hello perkahwinan tu bukan setakat u suka i..i suka u come on let's get married.. kahwin tu umpama sama2 nak menuju Jannah..aiseh.. kalau takat  duit uolss banyak kat bank dah ada rumah dah ada kereta uollss rasa layak kahwin tapi ilmu agama sikit pun tak ada better tak payah kahwin kot.. macam mana nak ajar isteri macam mana nak ajar suami and macam mana nak ajar anak2...

From my personal view la.. orang kita sekarang ni lebih fokus untuk jadi bakal pengantin... hmmmm segala tok nenek punya collagen..supplement semua dok telan...konon nak bagi cantik and konon baru orang masuk meminang aka baru laku.. please girl we are not "thing".. kenapa letakkan diri kita macam barang.. nak test laku tak tak... we are more than that.. in other word kita cam nak future husband kita tu berkenan kat kita sebab kita lawa.. Beauty is not everlasting.. and kita tak akan pernah jadi yang tercantik kat dunia.. sentiasa ada yang lagi dan lagi cantik.. Kalau husband kita nak kita sebab cantik esok ni dia jumpa lagi yang lagi cantik..dont cry girl!! Tak salah pun makan collagen untuk supplement untuk diri..untuk kesihatan untuk keyakinan diri..jaga nawaitu tu.. iolsss pun makan jugak..

So why kita fokus untuk jadi bakal pengantin ja?? Kita ni sure ka semua bakal pengantin?? Bukankah dah for sure kita ni bakal jenazah?? haaa yang tu memang semua confirm.. tapi kita tak ambil peduli pun.. sibuk nak fokus jadi bakal pengantin jek.. So dari kita stress pasaipa tak da orang meminang.. pasaipa tak kahwin lagi.. stress dengan mulut2 puaka orang.. Moh ler kiter fokus diri kita yang bakal and for sure jadi bakal jenazah ni.. Mulut orang tu arghhhh just ignore... atau jawab je " Jodoh itu Rahsia Allah, Mak cik.... Saya dah berdoa.. Makcik pun berdoa la untuk saya..terima kasih"..

Rileks girl!! Move forward.. Kita bukan duduk zaman dolu2.. Dunia dah maju aiseh.. Untuk mulut2 puaka tu anggap lagi mereka tak majukan diri mereka lagi.. Tak tahu la kalau kat luar negara isu tak kahwin ni apa mentality depa.. orang cakap tak apa depa bukan Islam so depa tak kahwin pun boleh... haaa salah tu.. marriage is not about u can have a sex..maaf cakap.. So girl!! change up your mentality! Iolss buat entry ni bukan pasal iolsss pun tak kahwin but just wanna share my opinion... and help other girl that may face all these situation... sebab rasanya orang kita lebih fokus pada perkahwinan padahal perkahwinan bukan satu2nya ada kat dunia ni.. Ingat kita dilahirkan untuk jadi Khalifah Allah...and Jodoh itu Rahsia Allah.. kadang2 Allah angkat darjat seorang wanita tu tinggi yang mana kat dunia tak ada laki pun layak untuk dia.. tapi di syurga nanti.. Ada kisah seorang pemuda zaman Nabi ni.. Dia pemuda yang baik.. berjihad.. kenapa Allah tak bagi dia jodoh kat dunia sedangkan dia terlalu baik?? Sebab ada bidadari yang berebut2 untuk dia kat syurga..akhirnya dia meninggal time berjihad.. time tu dia berpuasa...dia nazak..sahabat2 lain nak bagi air dia tak mau sebab dia nak buka puasa dengan isteri dia bidadari syurga...so sweet... ok ladies!! dont be sad.. be awesome instead wokey!! perbaiki diri sedikit demi sedikit.. this  advice is for me too..

p/s: everyone has their own past stories but it cant stop them from being a good person in future..

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Tutti Frutti And Spiderman

Assalamualaikum

Hmmm kalau ambik cuti 5 hari tak keluar rumah itu adalah satu yang tidak awesome bro... So hari Jumaat tu.. ada la sikit hal... then memang rasa nak keluar.. tapi hari orang kerja kan nak ajaq sapa keluar huhuhu.. pwehh nasib baik Kiroro ajaq keluar... Adik kembar kita dah balik...! Teman Kiroro beli tiket train dekat Seberang... Penuh la pulakkk... Then pergi Terminal Sg Nibong... ok agak malas nak pergi sana actually.. sebab selalu ada anasir2 yang tak diingini datang mengacau.. Tapi kot mana pun memang kena pergi jugak Terminal ni kalau nak langkah laut..bukannya anak orang kaya kan nak nek flight ekekeke..

As predicted..anasir2 datang... This time so annoying.. I know I should keep silent but pwehhh just cant control my anger that day... so tercetus la war disitu... and believe me it's so annoying... pretty annoying.. seriously should make a police report upon this matter!! They try to embarrass us with all that kind of "barking"  sound... and use tudung as the only modal they have to fuss with us..well gentleman if you are so good in religion  then you wont approach us in that so near distance.. yeah i know someone who try to be cool but only make themselves look fool right gentleman?! And Alhamdulillah with the mercy from Allah.we are save that day eventhough they try to put cone on the road.. yeah luckily they are smart too..if they put the cone in the middle.. they seriously get them into trouble..(I mean we can directly call police at that time..this time this gonna be big issues) so as they are so smart they put it on the side of the road try to what it called 'gertak' us la konon...I somehow adore Kiroro driving's skill.. yeah girl if u guys in this situation just push hard the pedal and go faster as u can... My mistake i admitted.. Lesson to myself never talk to idiot..they only bring us to their level..

ok forget it! let's enjoy the day... Tutti Frutti time!

u guys know how long i've been not watching  movie... cant really remember what last movie I've watched.. So i really wanna watch movie..I wanna watch Spiderman!! Yeah it's quite long time since 4 of us i mean Kiroro, Nas, Nana and me went to movie... so i guess this is the opportunity we have.. but.. Nas is not well that day and Nana have to be at working place... hmmmmm so just two of us.. watching Spiderman 3D.. ohhh i love that movie... and i love Harry Osborn.. I adore his eye,, grey.. and his smile.. haiyaa why i always like bad boy... after that as usual karokkk time!!


Hmmm not much pict... it feel so incomplete...Yeah i miss going out 4 of us...

Thursday, May 8, 2014

Coco Brown by ColourSoft Contact Lens

Assalamualaikum....


As usual... contact lens review again!!.. This time for the month of May... Actually this brand is for 3 month usage.. but saja suka2 change every single month...teehee..

Honestly I wanna try Freshkon but My Sis bought me this brand...


I've tried Brown and Sexy Grey before...so i chose to try Coco Brown... actually not different with Brown just this one more lighter...

but i prefer this one than Brown... yeah next target... Perky Brown from Freshkon....

Her Jewellery from Groupon

Assalamualaikum...

So how your day...?? I'll try so hard to be positive day by day...  I think it doesnt helpful to  keep on pampering our sorrow.. if can try to be positive.. yeah I admit.. we are human sometimes it just overtaking us...hmmm

ok put aside all the choas in my mind... I wanna share with u all.. I just bought new watch teehee... believe me last watch I've bought is on 2012 perggh I bought it for me to wear for interview... then now 2014 haha.. I usually waste money on food and clothes.. that's can't be helped... Groupon!!.. how i hate doing my marketing assignment about this.. but sambil2 carik info sempat lagi cuci2 mata... berkenan yang ni.. Then after dapat sokongan padu dari colleagues... hmmm memang terus beli... but ambik masa almost 2 weeks camtu for delivery... terus minta help dari colleague yang kaki Groupon ni hehehe thanks Kak Shida for the advanced...

I feel like wanna own all the color.. but i chose

It's turquoise!!! love it..love it.... Seminggu tak pakai jam kat tangan sebab jam CK RM10 tu dah habis bateri... Walau HP ada jam,,, tapi tetap suka pakai jam.. senang...

Saturday, May 3, 2014

Let do the TAG

  Assalamualaikum...
 
Untuk menambahkan entry bulan May ni.. I saja2 suka2 nak jawab tag camni..eventhough no one care or like to know...bhahhaha
 
1.What is your nickname?
At home ---> Eida
Kawan2..masyarakat sekeliling ---> Zu...Zuzu..Zubaidah
 

2. What was your favorite subject in school?
Paling2 suka subject English... then Biology..hey subject ok not subjects...okeyyy baikk...


3. What’s your favorite drink?
Ape erkk... give me milk la....

4. Favorite song at the moment?
currently suka dengar lagu.. Memories from Within Temptation..


5. What would you name your children?
hmmm sedih tau jawab soalan ni... diri ni kahwin ke tak pun belum tentu lagi..but everygirl memang dah ada nama anak2 sendiri kan..
ni untuk first baby
if boy.. Muhamad Rayyan Zulkarnain..cam panjang lak nyusahkan anak fill up form nanti teehee
if girl... Irdina Wafiyyah.. 
ni plan jek.. 
nama mungkin berbeza sebab nak berebut dengan husband haha..

6. Do you participate in any sports?
hmm bidan terjun masuk adalah.. but now i do really wanna continue my taekwando class..how i wish....

7. Favorite Book?
quite tough to answer because every book have their own best story..

8. Favorite Colour?
this year i like orange...yeahh still yellow..and turquoise..

9. Favorite Animal?
cat and rabbit...tapi takut nak pegang... ular boleh tak teeheee

10. Favorite perfume? 
Polo No2

11. Favorite holiday?
anywhere that are good for sightseeing and release mind.. greeny place...  well actually the word holiday is already the best for me...

12. Have you graduated High School?
of course la...

13. Have you been out of the Country?
emmm just Singapore and Indonesia...

14. Do you speak any other Languages?
Besides Malay and English...i can speak Bawanesse's language

15. Do you have any siblings?
3 siblings... 1 eldest brother...1 elder sister...actually 4..but my first brother already died during birth..

16. What’s your favorite store?
store of what??
For Book..Borders
For Clothes...BrandOutlet, DressingPaula...
For makeup...Sephora..
For shoes...Nose, Vincci...
actually i love to go to every store..

17. Favorite Restaurant?
heyy i wont say no to food la haha
so favorite i just dont know...

18. Did you like school?
emmm yeah sometimes..

19. Favorite YouTubers?
For Makeup...Michelle Phan, Shafinatul...
For laugh...Pinkmarbless, IniAnwarHadi, MatLutfi90.

20. Favorite Movie?

I cant remember.... it just long time...

21. Favorite Tv show?
actually i dont really watch TV... but now i love to watch FearFactor..

22. Pc or Mac?
emmm PC...

23. What phone do you have?
Nokia 3320(Gift from my Mak on 2004), 
Nokia XpressMusic ( balance of my scholarship money on 2007) 
Nokia E5 ( nak kata duit PTPTN tak juga sebab guna duit PTPTN beli then my Bapa gave RM1K for it..consider as from Bapa la..2010)
 Samsung Grand Duos (2014  get from Bonus...)
I hardly change handphone hahahaa..not rich as others..

24. How tall are you?
emmm... 150cm... i'm not short just my height is some kind of cute teehee..

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Happy Labour Day

Assalamualaikum


Happy Labour Day!!! The best thing is it's holiday!!! but not all worker are allowed to have a holiday today!! Bayangkan semua cuti... no petrol station...no bus.. no taxi.. no cashier...nothing... and so creepy if hospital doktor cuti and driver ambulans pun cuti... ohhh just imagine..  so where we all going to go...and to do?? lepak2 kat taman ja la jawabnya...

Actually it's my 3rd years as a worker.... keja2 lepas SPM yang few months tu tak kira la noo... job after graduated.... hmmmm ingat lagi time kecik2 main2 jadi doktor... jadi cikgu.. jadi "keja2 ofis".. how i guess working adult is awesome...but if i'm already this phase..i was like "ohhh how i really wish to be kid again.." nothing to worry... no stress... most probably enough sleep i guess haha... yeah it's time to face the fact... i'm growing adult... already past the phase of going to kindergarten...then primary school...standard 4 we can used pen to write...yeahh it's weird la why standard 4 only can use pen...and i still remembered how excited i am when i bought pens and started to use it..hahaha then standard 6 i've changed to new school as i've moved to new house...

Then to secondary school wearing that light blue skirt..passed my PMR and chose science class...After SPM, got opportunity to study at Polytechnic and taking Information Technology (Programming).. After graduated... I got my first job that is in Administration which i totally have zero knowledge.. i also have to do marketing and become PA.. with zero knowledge.. how i feel being used.. how i struggle...how i suffer there hahaha... i've been working there for 1 year and 4 month.. it's like everyday i'll desperately look up for new job in jobstreet..mudah.my...SPA...attended 2 government interview and failed... then  changed to new job now.. as current date i've been working here for 1 year 5month...and i dont lookup for new job..i mean not yet...of course we should find good job.. i really dont know..by that, i just leave it to Allah...

No one ever said that this life is easy...by that, i keep on moving...only the grateful feeling that i have a job so that i can give something to family that make me strong...because I'm adult now.. what can i said...live life to the fullest...
Pic tak dak kena mengena hahaaha kesahhh